I think sometimes you take on roles depending on who you’re with. Sometimes I’m the dreamer and sometimes I’m the realist. If I’m with someone who is a major dreamer…I’ll turn into the realist…however…if someone either a guy or a girl is a realist…I’ll start pushing the dreamer stuff. Maybe this Swedish guy was such a dreamer, maybe dreamer is an understatement, so you had to be a realist to get through the conversation. I mean could you imagine if you were like…yes I’ll come to Sweden let’s go book the ticket now? He’d shit his pants so fast. Sometimes guys think that if they lay on this type of charm that the woman will be swept off her feet, without thinking of the true consequences. Some women play into it and then laugh about it later…some think it’s a big turn off…like Kristin. But one really good thing came out of it….the SingleTease shirt worked again! Plus I read somewhere that if you wear an accessory that stands out it gives them an excuse to talk to you.